Parents’ Guide to Child Arrangement Orders
When parents separate, one of the most important questions is where the children will live and how much time they will spend with each parent. If you cannot agree, the court can make a Child Arrangement Order (CAO).
Here are answers to some of the most common questions parents ask:
Who decides where my child lives after separation?
Ideally, you and your ex-partner will agree together. If you cannot, the court can decide through a Child Arrangement Order. The focus is always on what is best for the child.
Can my ex stop me seeing my child?
No parent has the right to cut the other parent out of a child’s life without a very good reason. If contact is being blocked unfairly, you can apply to the court for a CAO to protect your relationship with your child.
What does a Child Arrangement Order cover?
A CAO sets out:
- Who the child lives with.
- When and how the child spends time with the other parent.
- Sometimes details about holidays, phone calls, or special occasions.
Will the court listen to my child’s wishes?
Yes. The court will take into account a child’s wishes and feelings, depending on their age and maturity. However, the child’s welfare always comes first.
What if my ex wants to move abroad with our child?
If one parent wishes to relocate permanently, they must apply to the court (if the other parent does not agree). The court will consider the child’s welfare and the impact on both parents. For temporary travel (e.g. holidays), permission is also required if there is no agreement.
Can a Child Arrangement Order be changed?
Yes. If circumstances change, either parent can apply to vary the order. For example, as children grow older or if one parent moves house.
What if the other parent ignores the court order?
If a parent breaches the order, you can apply to the court to enforce it. The court can take steps to make sure the arrangements are followed.
How Capital One Solicitors Can Help
Our experienced Children’s Law team can:
- Advise you on your rights and options.
- Help negotiate arrangements without going to court.
- Apply for or defend Child Arrangement Orders.
- Represent you in court hearings and enforcement applications.
📞 Contact us today for confidential advice about child arrangements and protecting your relationship with your children.
